And what to do about it, there seems to be a common theme around what women worry about when they’re about to quit drinking. Some of the things they experience in early sobriety that may lead them to go back to drinking. And even once you’ve quit drinking, there is a time between when your life was filled with alcohol, and with drinking events. And with the connections that you made and had the adventures that you had, while drinking and the period of time before your life is filled, and joyful and exciting without alcohol. And I want to talk about that in this episode. There are various strategies available to help you overcome boredom drinking and maintain a sober lifestyle in 2024.
- When I was in very early sobriety, maybe 30 days in, 60 days, and I joined sort of a photo of the day contest.
- “But your hangover is just going to be pushed down the road.”
- Be deliberative, who you’re looking at, and what you’re watching.
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- Say your main drinking occasion is when you socialize with friends.
- Surrounding yourself with people that support you can help alleviate possible remnants of guilt and shame from past behaviors.
Bored drinking can sneakily become an unhealthy habit, and it’s not always easy to curb it on your own. Alcohol is probably not the only indulgence in your life. Once your downtime ends, and you’ve made progress on your hobby or taken a walk, enjoy a piece of chocolate before your next activity. As part of your daily “boredom prevention plan,” schedule a reward for not drinking when you otherwise would. A sure sign of problematic bored drinking is failing to achieve hobby-related goals. Hobbies give you goals, and if you especially enjoy them, you’ll be motivated to reach these goals.
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He’s a senior scientific adviser at the NIH institute that studies alcohol, and he says the results have been kind of surprising. Pre-drinking is obviously very tempting, especially when you realise that a glass of shitty Chardonnay at the pub is the same price as an entire bottle from Aldi. But if you want to cut down, pre-drinking less is an easy way to do that.
But drinking alcohol doesn’t solve any of these problems. Will Health Insurance Pay for Drug Detox & Rehab Services When the alcohol wears off, your problems will still be there, and you’ll likely reach out for more alcohol to escape them again. Or better yet – remove alcohol from your home.
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I’m Casey McGuire Davidson, ex-red wine girl turned life coach helping women create lives they love without alcohol. But it wasn’t that long ago that I was anxious, overwhelmed, and drinking a bottle of wine and night to unwind. I thought that wine was the glue, holding my life together, helping me cope with my kids, my stressful job and my busy life.
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Learning to identify the triggers to drinking is the first step towards preventing drinking out of boredom. Regularly consuming alcohol when you’re bored has both short-term and long-term effects on your health, even if it doesn’t lead to a drinking disorder. People often use alcohol to enhance experiences, but this kind of drinking is problematic because it makes you dependent on alcohol to not feel bored or to have a good time.
You’re likely to drink more alcohol in a shorter amount of time if you kick off your night with hard liquor, he says. It makes you inebriated faster — and you may feel inclined to drink more than you would slowly sipping a beer. Some people think that a “hair of the dog,” an alcoholic beverage consumed the morning after a night of heavy drinking, can help cure a hangover. The symptoms and severity of your hangover — like your alcohol tolerance — depends on many factors, says Marino. That includes age, weight, gender, ethnicity, family history, nutritional status, smoker status, mood, health conditions or whether you’re taking any medications. So I think the very first step here is to simply assess your relationship with alcohol.
She tailors interventions to individual needs, drawing from modalities like mindfulness, DBT, CBT, and EMDR. Kathleen was born and raised in Denver, Colorado, but spent half of her life in California. She holds a master’s in clinical psychology with an emphasis on marriage and family therapy. Additionally, she has a master’s in holistic wellness and is trained in EMDR therapy for both in-person and virtual settings. Kathleen has more than 15 years of experience treating people who have a substance use disorder. Specializing in Compulsive Hoarding and Behavior Addictions, Brionna guides clients towards healthier relationships and boundaries.
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“Your hangover is going to be different from everyone else you know,” he says. For example, while one person might experience headaches and vomiting after just one drink, another might throw back whiskey gingers all night and wake up feeling tired but otherwise unscathed. If you plan to drink alcohol and want to reduce potential symptoms, practice moderation, he says. That means limiting your alcohol intake to one drink a day or less for women, and two drinks a day or less for men, according to the Department of Health and Human Services. This can be a huge hurdle to overcome for many, as it is honestly quite uncomfortable to do something outside of our norm to make a change. Change can be hard, as habits are ingrained in our psyche.
Journaling, self-reflection, and mindfulness can help you gain an understanding of your triggers for boredom drinking, enabling you to take proactive steps to prevent boredom drinking and stay sober. Stress, anxiety, and loneliness can all be potential triggers for boredom drinking. People may turn to alcohol as a way to cope with these negative emotions, but in doing so, they may be putting their mental health at risk. Many scientific studies have proved a positive relationship between boredom/loneliness and excessive alcohol use. Welcome to the Hello Someday Podcast, the podcast for busy women who are ready to drink less and live more.
Losing relationships to the substance can be challenging but anchoring to others in recovery can be the very thing you need to feel worthy of recovery. Alcohol can be in a unique position of being both the solution to and the cause of pain. Yet, no matter how much pain it causes to the individual or family, alcohol is one of the most difficult substances to remove. There is a strong relationship between boredom, stress, and drug or alcohol use. It’s therefore no surprise that during the pandemic, the rate of alcohol consumption increased among people that reported COVID-19 related stress. The pandemic has been here and, at the time of this writing, is continuing to keep our world in a state of flux.
